Sunday, December 4, 2016

Amoris Laetitia - Par. 126

Joy and Beauty

126.  In marriage, the joy of love needs to be cultivated.  When the search for pleasure becomes obsessive, it holds us in thrall and keeps us from experiencing other satisfactions.  Joy, on the other hand, increases our pleasure and helps us find fulfillment in any number of things, even at those times of life when physical pleasure has ebbed.  Saint Thomas Aquinas said that the word "joy" refers to an expansion of the heart.127  Marital joy can be experienced even amid sorrow; it involves accepting that marriage is an inevitable mixture of enjoyment and struggles, tensions and repose, pain and relief, satisfactions and longings, annoyances and pleasures, but always on the path of friendship, which inspires married couples to care for one another: "they help and serve each other".128

127 Cf. Summa Theologiae I-II, q. 31, art. 3., ad 3.
128 Second Vatican Ecumenical Council, Pastoral Constitution on the Church and the Modern Word Gaudium et Spes, 48.


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