Wednesday, March 22, 2017

Amoris Laetitia - Par. 234


234.  Crises need to be faced together.  This is hard, since persons sometimes withdraw in order to avoid saying what they feel; they retreat into a craven silence.  At these times, it becomes all the more important to create opportunities for speaking heart to heart.  Unless a couples learns to do this, they will find it harder and harder as time passes.  Communication is an art learned in moments of peace in order to be practised in moments of difficulty.  Spouses need help in discovering their deepest thoughts and feelings and expressing them.  Like childbirth, this is a painful process that brings forth a new treasure.  The answers given to the pre-synodal consultation showed that most people in difficult or critical situations do not seek pastoral assistance, since they do not find it sympathetic, realistic or concerned for individual cases.  This should spur us to try to approach marriage crises with greater sensitivity to their burden of hurt and anxiety.

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